1 00:00:01,080 --> 00:00:03,960 WOMAN: What would complete me is finding my person. 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:07,440 NARRATOR: 16 singles from across Australia... 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:09,400 All I want is love and to love someone. 4 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:13,520 ..put their hearts on the line to find true love. 5 00:00:13,560 --> 00:00:14,800 She looked breathtaking. 6 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:16,640 Some found an instant spark. 7 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:17,840 Will you marry me? 8 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:19,080 You're actually way too hot. 9 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:21,360 Yes! 10 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:23,760 Others found a familiar face. 11 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:29,200 But for Katie... 12 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:30,240 Oh, wow! 13 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:34,720 ..her worst fear came true. 14 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,320 KATIE: I took that as a bit of rejection. 15 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:39,960 The honeymoons saw love blossom. 16 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:41,920 Last night in the bedroom was good. 17 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:43,280 It just keeps getting better and better. 18 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:44,720 Let's say that we are compatible. 19 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:47,840 (GROANS) 20 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:50,040 But the rigid groom, Eliot... 21 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:51,600 We're not right for each other. 22 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:54,520 ..left Lauren two days into their marriage. 23 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,040 A grown man throwing a tantrum because he didn't 24 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:58,520 get exactly what he wanted. 25 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,080 And Tim's lack of spark... 26 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:04,960 He's not into me because of what I am, physically. 27 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:06,800 ..left Katie in tears. 28 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:09,480 Oh, this is a disaster. (SOBS) 29 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:13,360 Tonight... (CHEERS) 30 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:17,800 It's 'My Big Fat MAFS Wedding.' 31 00:01:17,840 --> 00:01:19,720 We go crazy. Drink rakija. 32 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:20,960 (INDISTINCT SINGING) 33 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,240 We got some. Don't worry about that. 34 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:26,960 We got your back, baby. 35 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:29,680 You're invited to the loudest... (CHEERS) 36 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:31,400 ..and most heartwarming... 37 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,920 Treat our mum as the queen she is. 38 00:01:34,960 --> 00:01:36,440 ..party of the year. 39 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:38,960 Opa! 40 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:41,440 RYAN: Where have all the warriors gone? 41 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:44,000 Where are all the knights gone? 42 00:01:45,320 --> 00:01:47,080 We meet Ryan the warrior. 43 00:01:47,600 --> 00:01:51,800 He's trained his whole life for this very moment. 44 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,520 But has he met his match with his new bride... 45 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,480 Divorce is the most expensive decision you can make in your life. 46 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:01,880 ..who is expecting nothing short of perfection? 47 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:05,000 Can this groom rise to the occasion? 48 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:06,640 I have a warrior's mentality. 49 00:02:08,640 --> 00:02:09,680 Or will he... 50 00:02:10,360 --> 00:02:12,360 (ALL EXCLAIM) 51 00:02:13,000 --> 00:02:14,000 drop the ball? 52 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,920 Oh my god! He just ruined everything! 53 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,280 After tens of thousands of applications 54 00:02:25,320 --> 00:02:27,800 from all around Australia, 55 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,720 we're down to the last two couples to enter 56 00:02:30,760 --> 00:02:34,400 this year's Married At First Sight experiment. 57 00:02:34,920 --> 00:02:37,880 And following a rigorous matching process, 58 00:02:37,920 --> 00:02:41,480 the experts are ready to unveil their next match... 59 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,120 this year's oldest groom, Tony. 60 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:55,360 Can I talk? 61 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:03,320 Oh, I was just going to make you another cup of tea. 62 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:04,720 That's what I was going to say. 63 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:07,680 I'm Tony, I'm 53. 64 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:08,880 I'm from Wollongong. 65 00:03:08,920 --> 00:03:11,560 One of the most beautiful places down here in New South Wales. 66 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,760 Welcome, welcome. 67 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,920 My mum and dad migrated here from Macedonia 68 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:22,440 back in the '60s, and they passed away about a year and a half ago, 69 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,160 and left me this house here that I was born and raised in. 70 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,080 It's perfectly preserved. 71 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:30,120 Like, still got the chickens in the backyard my mum left me. 72 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,520 The chicken's older than me, man! 73 00:03:36,360 --> 00:03:38,360 Life is, um... It's beautiful. 74 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,360 The only thing that bothers me, I'd like to have someone 75 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,040 to share that happiness with me. 76 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:44,920 I forgot what it was like to have a woman 77 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:49,320 and hang out every day and scream at me and yell at me. 78 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:52,000 Of course I'll let her put her touch to it. 79 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:53,240 It'll be nice. 80 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:54,280 It needs that. 81 00:03:57,080 --> 00:03:58,120 I'm ready for change. 82 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,520 Do you want to see what I do? I'll show you what I do. 83 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,600 PRODUCER: Tony, we're not here. To talk? 84 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:04,640 Yeah. 85 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,320 I've been married before. 86 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,920 I met her when I was 20. Lovely woman, 87 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:12,320 I have no complaints about her, 88 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:13,560 but I think it was too young at heart. 89 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,400 I just wasn't ready to get married. 90 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,680 When you get married, you're supposed to be together forever. 91 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:20,480 So it's kind of a little bit heartbreaking for me 92 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:22,120 that I'm by myself at my age. 93 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:24,760 I thought I'd end up like my parents. 94 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:27,440 The relationship my mum and dad had 95 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:29,640 was they were together for life. 96 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:32,760 I miss my parents a lot. 97 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,280 Your parents are the most beautiful people in the world. 98 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:38,400 So... 99 00:04:43,840 --> 00:04:44,840 (VOICE BREAKS) One second. 100 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:58,360 My dad told me, he goes, 101 00:04:58,400 --> 00:04:59,480 "I saw her in the garden. 102 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,240 "I picked her up and said 'this one's my wife.'" 103 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:02,720 And took her home. 104 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,920 That's how they used to do it in the old days, man. 105 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:07,840 That's actually, that's what's happening to me right now. 106 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,960 It's this experiment. Just go get married. 107 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:15,200 That's what marriage is about is growing old together. 108 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:18,080 Should I say growing young together. 109 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:20,440 Who's that guy over there? What's going on here? 110 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:22,600 Woo! 111 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:23,640 That's the one, Tone. 112 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:25,520 So, my perfect woman, 113 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,280 she's got to be young at heart. 114 00:05:29,840 --> 00:05:32,320 I like to go and have fun. Have a chat. 115 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,920 Do what you want to do. Let's get out there and do it. 116 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,920 If she's strong-minded and driven 117 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:40,960 and knows what she wants, I'll be behind her. 118 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,040 I'll be supporting her. 119 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:46,960 I'm Morena. I am a vivacious 57 year old. 120 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,040 All right, guys, come on, pick it up. 121 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:53,320 What have you done today to be proud? 122 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:56,960 I'm a fitness instructor and a rocking DJ. 123 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,480 But if you had told me seven years ago, 124 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:04,760 "Morena, this is going to be your life," 125 00:06:05,280 --> 00:06:06,840 I would have said, 126 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,080 "No, I think you're talking about somebody else." 127 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:14,080 I'm from a traditional Italian background. 128 00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:18,400 I was in a loveless marriage for 29 years. 129 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:21,600 I was suffocated. 130 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:28,200 He took control of everything and would tell me, 131 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:30,200 "You're nothing without me." 132 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:34,120 Absolutely. 133 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:38,240 29 years of someone saying that you're nothing. 134 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:41,000 That's why I stayed so long. 135 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:43,920 You had a very long marriage. 136 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:46,080 What was not working there? 137 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,280 What did you learn from that experience? 138 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,600 That last time I said, "I'm leaving," 139 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,280 his reply was, "You said that the last time, 140 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:55,320 but you're still here." 141 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:58,840 Oh. "Not this time. 142 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:00,400 This one's it." 143 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,400 And it was game on. 144 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:08,920 I have made sure that I've got the best life in the world 145 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,360 for myself and my two gorgeous kids - 146 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:15,080 My son, Stefan, and my daughter, Olivia. 147 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:17,960 Oh, you are just delicious! 148 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,880 My son, Stefan, is a really special young man. 149 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:24,400 He's got a disability. 150 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,320 I'm a carer for my son, and I just built him 151 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:30,200 a self-contained apartment in my back yard. 152 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:31,960 He just needs somebody to look out for him. 153 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:34,800 Hello. Hi, Mum. How are you? 154 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,160 Hi, darling. This is your? 155 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:39,200 My house. 156 00:07:39,760 --> 00:07:43,560 It is so empowering that I've achieved this 157 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:50,560 on my own, but I don't want to grow old alone. 158 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:52,240 I still believe in love. 159 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:55,760 And I can't wait to feel loved and to love. 160 00:07:56,560 --> 00:07:58,480 I want to meet somebody who wants to live. 161 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:01,560 I want him to match my energy. 162 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:05,520 I want to meet somebody that wakes up and just goes, 163 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:08,720 "I'm going to make your day so much better today." 164 00:08:09,880 --> 00:08:11,320 And I want to do the same for them. 165 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:14,040 Age is just a number. 166 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:16,360 Age is nothing, man. 167 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,280 I just hope she's close to her family, her friends. 168 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:22,080 Because family is the most beautiful thing to me. 169 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:23,920 Was that a wet kiss? No! 170 00:08:23,960 --> 00:08:25,360 It better not be. 171 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,240 Morena was married for 29 years. 172 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,400 And this was a marriage she felt very trapped in. 173 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:33,040 She didn't feel like herself. 174 00:08:33,680 --> 00:08:35,920 So she really wants to share her life with someone 175 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,840 who will embrace her for everything that she is. 176 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:41,800 Well, Tony talks about being a romantic 177 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:43,280 and being very gallant. 178 00:08:43,320 --> 00:08:45,680 And that is something that Morena has never had. 179 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,400 And they both come from similar European backgrounds 180 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:52,120 and will very likely really enjoy that about one another. 181 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,680 NARRATOR: Next to enter the experiment are two singles 182 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:05,480 who take themselves and this experiment very seriously. 183 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,440 They have dedicated their lives to personal 184 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:12,280 development and self-growth, and perfection is what they 185 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:15,840 expect from themselves and a potential partner. 186 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,440 One time, I was dating an investment banker 187 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:24,120 and he broke up with me and I was really distraught about this, 188 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:26,000 and I was like, how am I going to convince him 189 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:27,720 that we actually are a really good fit? 190 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,240 So I was like, maybe I should build a pitch deck. 191 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,800 And just lay it out as if it was a business case. 192 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,240 But I ultimately was like, it's impossible to 193 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:41,480 find someone on my level. 194 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,400 My name is Jacqui, I'm 29, I live in Sydney 195 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:46,000 and I'm a consultant. 196 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,600 I think most guys first date me because I'm hot 197 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:50,040 and I'm fine with that. 198 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:52,400 Don't get me wrong, I'm happy to just be the hot girl. 199 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:54,520 Um, but I actually do have a brain. 200 00:09:54,560 --> 00:09:57,000 I went to university and did a very broad degree. 201 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,800 I did a Bachelor of Laws and Commerce, 202 00:09:59,840 --> 00:10:03,240 conjoint with a major in finance with first class honours and law. 203 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,760 But also, I'm not a boring girl. 204 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:06,880 I'm a lot of fun. 205 00:10:07,680 --> 00:10:11,600 I used to be a model and was even Miss New Zealand. 206 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:13,200 I grew up as a dancer. 207 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:16,760 Ballet, tap and jazz, also grew up doing a lot of sport. 208 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,680 Netball, was a netball coach, netball umpire, volleyball, 209 00:10:19,720 --> 00:10:21,960 tennis, was even in the cricket team. 210 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:26,000 So I usually run about 10 to 13km most days 211 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:27,160 and I've run a marathon. 212 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:29,400 I've read probably over 2000 books. 213 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:31,560 Every single business book there is on the planet, 214 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,680 I've probably read it, and if it's not books, 215 00:10:33,720 --> 00:10:36,240 I'll be listening to book summaries to remind myself 216 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:37,880 of what the books were about. 217 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:40,800 People sometimes bore me, so I just turn to books. 218 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:44,920 I'm crazy, but I've got a growth mindset. 219 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:47,600 I love perfecting myself into a diamond. 220 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:53,680 I've got high standards because I've had to overcome a lot of 221 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:55,080 challenges in my life. 222 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:59,400 I was bullied in high school, but I've worked very hard 223 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,800 to become the best version of myself, and so I expect 224 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:04,520 a lot from my partner. 225 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:08,880 Putting your love life in the hands of experts 226 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:11,360 is a big risk, so to speak. 227 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,920 What was the trigger that got you to do that? 228 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,520 Yeah, I think I'm just a little bit frustrated 229 00:11:17,560 --> 00:11:20,840 and disappointed with men in the dating scene 230 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:23,160 because I've got a lot to offer 231 00:11:23,200 --> 00:11:25,680 and a lot of them don't take chances on me. 232 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:27,400 Why not? 233 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:30,280 I think they're intimidated. 234 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:32,200 I'm too ambitious. 235 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:37,880 I'm too much to handle, and maybe I should dial down myself. 236 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:39,720 Which is tough, because you want someone to 237 00:11:39,760 --> 00:11:41,200 love the whole of you. 238 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,600 And when guys can't love the whole of you, 239 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:46,640 it makes you feel like no-one's going to love the whole of you. 240 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:49,400 I need someone who's just like, 241 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,880 'That is the woman I want to marry.' 242 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:53,440 Like, they have no doubts. 243 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:55,840 They're just like, 'She's beautiful, she's intelligent, 244 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:58,400 'she's ambitious, she's fit, she's healthy, 245 00:11:58,440 --> 00:11:59,800 'she wants a family.' 246 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:01,160 They just see me and they're like, 247 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,040 'This is what I've been waiting for my whole life.' 248 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:07,600 I haven't met a man who feels like I'm his girl. 249 00:12:09,560 --> 00:12:11,280 I think it's just a shame that there's, like, 250 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:12,880 a lack of real men out there. 251 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:18,880 I like guys who hold a lot of power. 252 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:22,920 Someone who likes to be the masculine energy 253 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:25,680 in the relationship and take the lead 254 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:28,840 and can have intellectual conversations. 255 00:12:29,560 --> 00:12:32,720 Someone who sees the bigger picture of the world 256 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:33,800 and life in general. 257 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:37,040 Where have all the warriors gone? 258 00:12:38,080 --> 00:12:39,800 Where have all the philosophers gone? 259 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,240 Where have all the poets gone? 260 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:43,640 Where are all the knights gone? 261 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,840 Men without these roles have lost their way. 262 00:12:46,880 --> 00:12:49,440 So I consider myself a bit of a modern hybrid, really. 263 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:54,920 I have a warrior's mentality and modern self-awareness. 264 00:12:54,960 --> 00:12:57,240 When I first walk into a room, my presence 265 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:00,880 is something special and clearly something that people 266 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,160 gravitate towards, you know? 267 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:05,760 Because, like, I keep myself in really good shape. 268 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,440 I'm just someone who looks like he has the ability 269 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:10,720 to perform athletically. 270 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:14,440 I really value vitality. 271 00:13:15,160 --> 00:13:19,600 I'm going to live to 110 easily. Easily? 272 00:13:19,640 --> 00:13:20,640 Yep. Easily. 273 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,360 But there's a lot more to me than just pure physicality. 274 00:13:25,240 --> 00:13:26,480 I'm a project manager. 275 00:13:27,680 --> 00:13:29,800 I've had to forge my own career. 276 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,240 I've handled multi-million dollar contracts, 277 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:34,440 made presentations in front of boards of directors. 278 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,040 But there's men like me - 279 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:38,320 successful, strong or handsome dudes 280 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:41,800 who have good careers and good self-awareness and whatnot, 281 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,280 they're struggling to find a partner. 282 00:13:45,600 --> 00:13:47,800 I have been in long-term relationships before, 283 00:13:47,840 --> 00:13:51,040 and that was probably about five years ago. 284 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:52,800 That taught me a lot, but it was pure chaos 285 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:56,040 at the same time, you know, like it was so addictive 286 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,120 in its toxicity, you know, like, you knew it was 287 00:13:58,160 --> 00:13:59,640 bad for you, but you just kept, you know, 288 00:13:59,680 --> 00:14:01,160 rekindling it over and over. 289 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:03,360 I've been through the Shakespearean, like, 290 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:07,840 you know, disaster, but also amazing experience of love. 291 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:10,400 Grab a seat. Great to see you. 292 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:11,680 Yes. In person. 293 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:13,880 I love this part of the experiment. 294 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:14,960 So do I. 295 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:17,320 Wait 'til it gets you out of your comfort zone. 296 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:18,680 Oh, that's where I want to be, though. 297 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:19,800 Really? Yes. 298 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:21,800 Uh, have you always been like that? 299 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:23,720 Um, I think so, yes. 300 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:25,760 How would you describe yourself? 301 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,200 Well, I was, I was, I was a very angry young man 302 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:29,240 at one point. 303 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:31,280 Tell me about that. 304 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:35,120 Um, yeah, so I suffered a bit of mistreatment throughout 305 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,000 high school. Bullying and stuff? 306 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:38,480 Yeah. Definitely. Definitely. 307 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:42,360 And I was the trumpet playing, glasses wearing, 308 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:44,800 Harry Potter bowlcut looking dude. 309 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:47,240 I mean, I look at you now, I can't imagine that. 310 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,160 Yeah. But the people around you targeted you. 311 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:52,080 I didn't know what to do. Yeah. 312 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:53,880 So I started doing boxing, 313 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:56,480 and that's where I picked up my love for gym. 314 00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:58,320 And that's when I realised I had that warrior mentality, 315 00:14:58,360 --> 00:15:01,600 because I never wanted to be defenceless. 316 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,920 But I feel as if, as a man in this day and age, 317 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:06,080 you need those trials. 318 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:10,080 Otherwise you can't be the best man to a woman, I think. 319 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:14,760 I believe a woman shouldn't be afraid of her feminine energy, 320 00:15:14,800 --> 00:15:17,960 but I love a woman with a career. 321 00:15:19,560 --> 00:15:21,080 But I still have to be able to protect her. 322 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:24,200 That's my role as a warrior. 323 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:28,920 I do want to wear dresses, and I want to let him plan 324 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:32,280 the dates and me be excited about it and just do everything 325 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:35,880 I can to just be the woman that makes him feel like the man. 326 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:40,160 Some guy out there would love a wife who's interesting and got 327 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:43,680 a lot going for her, and always gets involved in crazy things. 328 00:15:44,760 --> 00:15:47,480 I think I can be difficult to match with, 329 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:52,680 because who else out there can show intelligence 330 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:57,440 and also be as, as, as good looking as I want them to be? 331 00:15:57,480 --> 00:15:59,640 It's almost unfair to ask that. 332 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,640 You just want to feel as if that who you are genuinely 333 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:05,520 is equivalent to someone else out there. 334 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:06,920 That's my unicorn. 335 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:11,160 Jacqui and Ryan are probably one of the most difficult 336 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:14,720 pairings that we've ever had to make on this experiment. 337 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:18,240 They have extremely high expectations for themselves 338 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:21,640 as well as the person they want to spend the rest of their life with. 339 00:16:21,680 --> 00:16:23,480 I think they're two of the most confident 340 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:25,560 participants we've ever had. 341 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:30,120 They both consider themselves high value people 342 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:32,440 and they have high expectations of their partner. 343 00:16:32,480 --> 00:16:35,640 This could be a roller coaster, but it could also be 344 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:39,120 a situation where they balance each other out perfectly. 345 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,600 NARRATOR: The last two pairings of this season's experiment 346 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:43,960 have been unveiled - 347 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:48,840 Morena and Tony, and Jacqui and Ryan. 348 00:16:49,720 --> 00:16:52,840 And soon they will meet for the very first time 349 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:55,000 when they marry at first sight. 350 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:02,560 It's the morning of Morena and Tony's wedding, 351 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:06,640 and Tony is waiting for his family to arrive to help him 352 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:08,400 celebrate his big day. 353 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:11,280 Hey! Here he is. 354 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:15,360 This morning, we've got my mate Danny, my cousin, Jason. 355 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:17,200 Congratulations. 356 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:18,960 And my first cousin, Zoran. 357 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:20,880 His head's not made for TV. 358 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:23,520 You'll understand. 359 00:17:24,840 --> 00:17:26,640 Oh, no! And there's Zoran! 360 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:37,560 What are we drinking? 361 00:17:38,120 --> 00:17:39,240 Hey! 362 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,240 We call it rakija. 363 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,040 Cheers to you and your beautiful wife. 364 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:47,000 It's just fire water. Rocket fuel. 365 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:48,840 We're going to be flying before we get there. 366 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:55,520 We go crazy and it's just drink, eat and dance. 367 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:57,880 (INDISTINCT CHATTER) 368 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:04,560 (INDISTINCT) 369 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,600 As you can tell. As you can tell. 370 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:12,440 (EXCLAIMS) 371 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:14,920 Here we go! 372 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:18,600 And there's one more tradition Tony must complete... 373 00:18:20,360 --> 00:18:22,120 Here we go. 374 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:24,040 ..before he is ready to be married. 375 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:25,960 (SINGS IN LANGUAGE UNKNOWN TO CAPTIONER) 376 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:29,680 The grooming. 377 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:31,800 Could have brought... 378 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:34,480 Brought biggest thing we could find. 379 00:18:36,520 --> 00:18:39,320 We show him. We prepare him for his big day. 380 00:18:40,520 --> 00:18:42,080 Zoran, you should start singing the song now. 381 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:44,600 Which song? (INDISTINCT) 382 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:46,560 (ZORAN SINGS IN LANGUAGE UNKNOWN TO CAPTIONER) 383 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:49,880 Why? No-one knows, but they just do. 384 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:52,600 Now you're ready. Let's go get married. 385 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,360 NARRATOR: It's Morena and Tony's big day. 386 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,320 I'm just doing you up, bella. OK? 387 00:19:06,360 --> 00:19:09,960 And Morena is getting a dress fitted by her friend, Josephine. 388 00:19:10,800 --> 00:19:14,160 My dress is definitely a representation 389 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:16,320 of who I am today. 390 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:18,200 Beautiful. 391 00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:20,480 My dress means everything to me. 392 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:23,560 Because the person I was would never have worn this dress. 393 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,560 My ex would never have allowed me this dress. 394 00:19:27,360 --> 00:19:29,320 Because it's showing too much. 395 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:35,080 I was married for 29 years to somebody who was unkind. 396 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:37,080 I stayed because that's what good girls 397 00:19:37,120 --> 00:19:40,520 from Italian background do. They stay. 398 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,000 Bellissima. 399 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:46,240 Now I'm ready to feel love and support. 400 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,520 Man, oh, man, you are hotter than hot, woman. 401 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:55,080 And Morena's children, Stefan and Olivia, are about to see 402 00:19:55,120 --> 00:19:58,760 their mum for the first time before she walks down the aisle. 403 00:20:00,200 --> 00:20:03,720 Oh, my god! You look amazing! 404 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:05,480 You're getting married! 405 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:11,200 You're queen. You're queen. 406 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:14,760 I can't wait for you to get married today. 407 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:20,320 For Mum to find her person, uh, would mean the world to us. 408 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,920 Just because she's been through so much, 409 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,200 she deserves to find love. 410 00:20:26,680 --> 00:20:31,160 If he doesn't like the three of us, we're a package deal. 411 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:32,640 Yeah, we are. Yeah, we are. 412 00:20:32,680 --> 00:20:34,480 Yes. Give me a spin. 413 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:36,800 My kids are my best friends. 414 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:37,840 They're my anchors. 415 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:39,440 My world. 416 00:20:40,120 --> 00:20:44,920 And my kids want nothing more than to see me love. 417 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:46,480 And to see me be loved. 418 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:49,120 (INDISTINCT CHATTER) 419 00:21:01,120 --> 00:21:02,120 This is beautiful. 420 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:08,720 Isn't this divine? 421 00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:13,280 So, so appropriate for Morena. It is, isn't it? 422 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:15,480 Oh, this is just beautiful. 423 00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,600 (OVERLAPPING GREETINGS) 424 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:19,480 Welcome. 425 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,000 Hello, everyone. Hi! 426 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:28,240 I'm the groomsman. 427 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:32,080 Oh! He'll be here shortly. 428 00:21:32,120 --> 00:21:34,440 He's got red hair and a big afro. 429 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,280 Oh, he does not! 430 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,640 Is this gentleman the comedian of the family? 431 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,280 Wait 'til I get some grappa in me. 432 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:45,240 So, are you Italian? 433 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:46,760 No. Grappa? 434 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,160 We're Macedonian. Rakija. 435 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:49,840 Ah... Rakija. 436 00:21:49,880 --> 00:21:51,320 'Tomato', 'tomahto' - it's all the same thing. 437 00:21:51,360 --> 00:21:53,120 Rakia. That's what us Greeks have. 438 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,160 We tested it this morning. It works. 439 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:04,120 TONY: Everybody hopes to find somebody and live the rest 440 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:05,200 of their life with someone. 441 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,040 That's... That's what marriage is about, 442 00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:08,200 is growing old together. 443 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:12,320 Like my parents. Doing everything you can together. 444 00:22:12,360 --> 00:22:13,640 As much as you can together. 445 00:22:14,360 --> 00:22:15,840 That's love. That's, that's forever. 446 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,200 Everybody wants that sort of life. 447 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:20,640 Everybody does. 448 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,120 I'm one of those people. 449 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:26,800 Hello, everybody. 450 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:29,920 (CHEERS) 451 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:34,120 (OVERLAPPING GREETINGS) 452 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:35,160 You look amazing. 453 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:37,480 So do you. 454 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:39,440 Yes. 455 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:42,360 I think she's gonna like you. 456 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:43,400 Yeah! 457 00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,520 And I think you're going to love her. 458 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,360 Oh, good. You have a beautiful family. 459 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:51,960 We'll get to know each other throughout the night. 460 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:53,160 It'll be fun. We will. 461 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:54,520 Just watch this guy over here. 462 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:57,880 We already know. We've been introduced. 463 00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:59,080 We know. Yeah. 464 00:22:59,120 --> 00:23:01,920 The first impressions were actually great impressions 465 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:03,280 for all of us. 466 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:04,840 He looks genuine. 467 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,200 Mm. Yeah. 468 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:08,800 He's perfect for Morena. 469 00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,280 Absolutely perfect. 470 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:15,560 MORENA: I have never been loved. 471 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,240 I've never felt like the only woman in the world. 472 00:23:28,120 --> 00:23:29,520 And just face me, please. 473 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:38,600 And I've decided it's time I now put myself first. 474 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:44,120 I've missed out for a very long time. 475 00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:45,240 Being 57... 476 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,080 I don't want to grow old alone. 477 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,240 Wow! 478 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:01,280 He's gorgeous. 479 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:06,200 Wow, man! 480 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,680 Hi. Well, she was smiling. 481 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:10,160 I couldn't stop smiling. 482 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,560 When you see that, you feel like just running out 483 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:14,800 and giving her a kiss before it all happens. 484 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:16,720 You know what I mean? It's just a beautiful feeling. 485 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:18,840 You're beautiful. 486 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:24,200 That smile absolutely melted my heart. 487 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:25,280 Those eyes. 488 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:27,640 The way he looked at me. 489 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:31,080 Wow. 490 00:24:31,120 --> 00:24:33,040 Hello, I'm Stefan. 491 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:34,880 Stefan, Tony. Nice to meet you. 492 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,760 Hi, I'm Olivia. Nice to meet you. 493 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,280 My children. Nice to meet you. 494 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:40,680 And you are? I'm Morena. 495 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:42,440 Morena. I'm Tony. Nice to meet you. 496 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:44,760 Pleasure to meet you. 497 00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,200 Mwah. Love you. Yes. Good luck. 498 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,120 I like your shoes, man. 499 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:52,520 Oh, thanks. 500 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:53,560 Thank you very much. 501 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,000 How are you? I'm good. 502 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:57,160 You? Are you nervous? 503 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:58,480 Not at all. 504 00:24:58,520 --> 00:24:59,640 High-five. 505 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,080 We're on the same page. 506 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:05,680 We got this, man. 507 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,360 So perfect and so beautiful. 508 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,480 That's... That's my wife. 509 00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:15,200 That's... That's the woman that I'm just about to marry. 510 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,120 Can we say our vows now? 511 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,400 Because I'm excited to marry this lady. 512 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:21,200 (LAUGHTER) 513 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:28,560 OK. 514 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:34,920 I stand before you today, not as someone who knows 515 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,680 all the answers, but as someone who's committed 516 00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,000 to discovering them with you. 517 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:46,920 At the age of 50, I had to reconstruct my life, 518 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:49,440 learning to navigate the world independently. 519 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:53,680 But age is just a number. 520 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:59,480 Today I stand here, the best version of myself. 521 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,840 Proud of the journey and the vibrant life 522 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,080 that I have built. 523 00:26:07,360 --> 00:26:09,160 I'm here because I'm looking for love. 524 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:13,640 I've never truly felt the warmth of being loved, 525 00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,680 and I cannot wait to experience this with you. 526 00:26:23,360 --> 00:26:25,160 The vows were spot on. 527 00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:27,800 I mean, she spoke with her heart. 528 00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,080 She's a very strong and beautiful woman. 529 00:26:32,120 --> 00:26:33,280 Wow. OK. 530 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:35,880 When I started this journey, I thought, 531 00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:39,000 where in the world are they going to find someone for me? 532 00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:43,080 But wow, they sent me an angel. 533 00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:44,760 (GUESTS 'AW') 534 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,400 The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, 535 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,240 the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. 536 00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,160 The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes. 537 00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,440 That is the doorway to her heart. 538 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:00,600 A place where love resides. 539 00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,240 So from this moment on, I'll be looking for that, 540 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,400 where love resides, and hopefully earn the right 541 00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:07,440 to have it with me. 542 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,920 I promise you'll always walk in front of me and fear nothing, 543 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,640 because you'll know exactly who is walking behind you. 544 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:16,320 It's lovely. 545 00:27:17,360 --> 00:27:19,960 I promise to consistently evolve with you 546 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:23,240 and most importantly, to promise to always make you smile. 547 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:25,240 You have a beautiful smile. Thank you. 548 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,680 So do you. Wow! 549 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,840 In the Macedonian culture, the parents.. 550 00:27:38,440 --> 00:27:40,600 ..parents would present the bride with a gift. 551 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,080 And I know if my parents were here today... 552 00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:50,480 ..they'd welcome you with open arms. 553 00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,360 Danny. This is my best mate, Danny. 554 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,040 Nice to meet you. Hi, darling. 555 00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:00,480 Nice to meet you. 556 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,280 Just hold that for me. 557 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,120 From my mum and dad and from my family. 558 00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,560 From everybody you see, this is all my family. 559 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:18,200 I'm shaking. 560 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:22,720 This is always by your heart. 561 00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:25,320 That's really sweet. Thank you. 562 00:28:27,120 --> 00:28:29,320 Thank you so much. Thank you. 563 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,000 I love it. It's gorgeous, I love it. 564 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:37,080 He obviously loved his parents, which is just beautiful. 565 00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:41,400 That really shows that you love family and all those things 566 00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:42,520 are really important to me. 567 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,600 Thank you for your beautiful words. 568 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,480 And your mum and dad are here. 569 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,240 Thank you. They are here. 570 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,920 They're up there with my parents. 571 00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:54,440 Oh, really? Yeah. 572 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,320 Oh, wow. They're having a cheer together. 573 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,280 What's, what's... 574 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,240 I know my parents will be having a grappa. 575 00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,000 We'll have to have a grappa together later. 576 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:04,920 We got some. Don't worry about that. 577 00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:06,360 We got your back, baby. 578 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:15,360 Family and friends, I now declare Morena and Toni as husband and wife. 579 00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,960 You may now share your first kiss. 580 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,960 (CHEERS) 581 00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:26,560 Extremely happy. Look. 582 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,240 It's just a beautiful feeling. 583 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,160 The surroundings, the atmosphere. 584 00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,200 The people, my family. Her family. 585 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,720 I got my queen, 100%. 586 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,640 Thank you, everybody. 587 00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:42,680 Thank you, thank you, thank you. 588 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,000 Thank you for coming. 589 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:45,400 Congratulations! 590 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:47,800 Thank you for coming. 591 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,760 I'm sure we're going to meet each other throughout the night. 592 00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:51,080 Actually look good together. 593 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,520 I love the way he was looking into her eyes. 594 00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:00,400 And holding her hands and just the vibe. 595 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:01,920 They've got a similar vibe. 596 00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,840 I...Yeah. Look good. 597 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:07,360 They look good. We feel really good. Yes. 598 00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:08,880 This is Tony. This is my husband. 599 00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:12,560 And this is my wife. 600 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,520 Morena and Tony, if I can get you guys to keep walking 601 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:17,760 down the aisle. Sorry, sorry. 602 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,920 This is how we roll in our community. 603 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:21,560 This is what Europeans do. 604 00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,640 You took the words right out of my mouth. 605 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:27,240 (SPEAKS ITALIAN) 606 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:29,640 (SPEAKS ITALIAN) 607 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:37,720 Ooh! 608 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,240 My mother brought me up... You say hello to everyone. 609 00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:43,080 That's how we are. Absolutely. 610 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,280 And with a smile. Absolutely. 611 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:48,120 Coming up... 612 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,640 JACQUI: I'm scared that he's going to be really disappointing. 613 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:56,280 Will Ryan meet his new bride's extremely high expectations? 614 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:58,360 It's impossible to find someone on my level. 615 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,320 I'm not willing to lower my standards. 616 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,840 I was just hopeful that I would have a man 617 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,120 that's just like the male version of me, 618 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,160 is really what I was looking for. 619 00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:24,800 NARRATOR: It's the morning of Jacqui and Ryan's wedding, 620 00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:30,240 and this warrior groom is more than ready, as his lifelong quest 621 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:35,000 of self-empowerment has prepared his mind, his body, 622 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:39,400 and his soul for the biggest day of his entire life. 623 00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:44,720 Nerves... 624 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:45,920 ..got no use for 'em. 625 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:52,880 My brother. 626 00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:55,720 I'm a risk taker. I'm a confronter. 627 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,600 Welcome to the circus. 628 00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:02,000 I describe myself as a multi-dimensional mortal. 629 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,120 Someone who has accepted that he's a mammal 630 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,400 on a flying rock in an infinite universe. 631 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:11,040 So everything that's within our perspective 632 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:12,280 is right here for the taking. 633 00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:14,280 How are you? 634 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:16,400 Yeah, I'm ready, bro. 635 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:19,120 I've done a lot of self-development. 636 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:22,680 I'm very self-aware, and I've confronted 637 00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:26,120 a lot of things which people are deathly afraid of. You know? 638 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,240 That's me. That's me. 639 00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,960 So, for example, I know basic plumbing. 640 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:33,600 I can change a tap, you know? 641 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:34,720 But I'm also quite strong. 642 00:32:34,760 --> 00:32:37,560 I can carry heavy things, help you move and whatnot. 643 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,640 If you're in danger in a situation, 644 00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,040 like a car accident, or if you're hanging over the edge 645 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:42,480 of a cliff, I can pick you up. 646 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:48,000 I feel like I can be a massive blessing and asset to someone. 647 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:49,800 My only fear in this world is sharks. 648 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:51,800 It's my only fear. 649 00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:53,920 I don't fear anything else because I've done the work 650 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,200 and I've confronted it all. 651 00:32:55,960 --> 00:33:00,240 Despite his warrior mentality, little does Ryan know that 652 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:04,640 his bride to be is expecting nothing short of perfection. 653 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,640 JACQUI: I've got a lot to offer, and it's impossible to 654 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,160 find someone on my level. 655 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:11,760 You guys don't know anything about each other. 656 00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:13,560 I don't even know what colour hair he's got. 657 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,680 I come from a family of very good genetics, 658 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:22,880 so I'd really love to have a blonde family like mine. 659 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:26,520 And having children that are blonde would be great 660 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:28,080 because I'd be able to relate to them a lot more. 661 00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:31,840 He has to have a desire to want to be a great man 662 00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:33,160 rather than a fragile boy. 663 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:39,120 I need a man who's going to take the lead and keep me safe, 664 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,400 warm and protected and dry. 665 00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:44,200 Are you excited about doing a first dance? 666 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,440 What if he drops me? 667 00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:49,360 Yeah. 668 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,520 And have a career and have goals. 669 00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,760 I think I'll know straight away whether he's got potential. 670 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,440 I work on myself every day to make sure I'm the best 671 00:33:58,480 --> 00:33:59,800 version of myself. 672 00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:01,600 And that's what I need in a partner. 673 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,320 And I'm not willing to lower my standards. 674 00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,440 I'm scared that he's going to be really disappointing. 675 00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:10,560 Divorce is the most expensive decision 676 00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:12,520 you can make in your life. 677 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:15,640 So if I can avoid that, that's what I'd love to do. 678 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,680 Wow, look at this. 679 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:32,600 It's amazing. That's beautiful. 680 00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:34,960 Worth coming just for that. 681 00:34:35,720 --> 00:34:36,720 Stunning. 682 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:42,160 After you, kind sir. 683 00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:49,800 He's gonna be so fun to watch standing up there, right? 684 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,200 I can't, I can't wait for it. 685 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,840 Oh, shit! 686 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:56,800 This is real. 687 00:34:58,320 --> 00:34:59,320 Let's go! 688 00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:05,360 The man I'm going to be embodying at the altar 689 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,320 is one who's done a lot of growth. 690 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:10,400 I've done a lot of inner work. 691 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:12,960 You know, you're not going to get anyone different 692 00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:14,320 when I'm up there. 693 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,960 It's just going to be a side to me that's the real deal. 694 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:22,520 So I'm ready to leave that single life behind and embrace 695 00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:25,200 the new chapter and everything that comes with it. 696 00:35:25,240 --> 00:35:28,240 And I want to immerse myself into it. 697 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:29,480 'Sup! 698 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:30,680 Never die wondering. 699 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:33,040 My people! 700 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:35,160 Handsome man. 701 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:41,400 My brothers! 702 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:44,400 Looking sharp, boys. 703 00:35:45,240 --> 00:35:46,400 So are you, bro. 704 00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:47,560 Look at you. 705 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:00,800 Getting married, bro. 706 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:02,000 What the hell, man? 707 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:03,040 Big move. Big move. 708 00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:05,200 He's not short. 709 00:36:05,240 --> 00:36:06,240 He has hair. 710 00:36:06,720 --> 00:36:07,720 The suspense. 711 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:19,360 I'm concerned that Ryan and his friends... 712 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:22,760 ..have some... 713 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,200 I'm concerned that... 714 00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:31,720 I love your socks, bro. 715 00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:35,240 They do. Oh my god, they do. 716 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,640 The energy they come forward with is like 717 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:40,320 boy gang type energy. 718 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:52,560 They look like the type of guys that maybe 719 00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:56,000 go out drinking...often. 720 00:36:57,720 --> 00:36:59,200 Where is my sister? 721 00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:02,560 Oh my gosh. 722 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:04,800 Remind me why I'm doing this. 723 00:37:07,400 --> 00:37:09,840 Ryan, can I get you to face this way 724 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:10,880 as the bride arrives? 725 00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,000 I'm so ready for this. 726 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,600 I've been ready for this for a very long time. 727 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:24,480 But my biggest challenge in past relationships was guys, 728 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,080 they would feel like they're not on my level. 729 00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:30,400 And the truth is, it's impossible to find 730 00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:31,960 someone on my level. 731 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:36,400 My priority is finding someone who understands 732 00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:37,680 what it means to be great. 733 00:37:38,240 --> 00:37:41,720 So I'm hoping the guy is nice and tall, 734 00:37:41,760 --> 00:37:43,600 very successful and blonde. 735 00:37:44,480 --> 00:37:47,680 So today's just that ball dropping moment 736 00:37:47,720 --> 00:37:52,040 of is he great or is he not so great? 737 00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:54,040 And if he's not, would definitely go down 738 00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:55,720 as one of the worst moments of my life. 739 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,120 (ALL LAUGH, EXCLAIM) 740 00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:12,160 Yeah, I'm a little bit disappointed he's not blonde. 741 00:38:12,720 --> 00:38:13,720 Wow. 742 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:15,680 Hi. Hi. 743 00:38:15,720 --> 00:38:19,800 And he hadn't shaved, which is a big turn off. 744 00:38:19,840 --> 00:38:20,960 Great to finally meet you. 745 00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:23,360 Thank you. 746 00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,160 Um, just because it's more what it says about the guy, 747 00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:29,640 obviously, he doesn't work in an office 748 00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:31,520 where that's the respectable thing to do. 749 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:34,240 I was just hopeful that I would, um... 750 00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,520 I would have a man that's just like the male version of me 751 00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,680 is really what I was looking for. 752 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,960 Such a build-up. And now get to see that person 753 00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:46,880 you've been imagining, you know. 754 00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:47,920 Yeah. 755 00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:51,280 How is this woman single? 756 00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,120 Wow. Not bad, eh? 757 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:55,160 Not bad. 758 00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:58,800 I'm so ready. 759 00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:04,480 Yeah. 760 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:07,000 I've been so excited. 761 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:09,200 Same. 762 00:39:09,240 --> 00:39:10,920 I could tell just by looking in her eyes. 763 00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:13,720 I felt so much genuine desire to be here. 764 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,960 I'm a big believer in that instinctive chemistry. 765 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:19,400 You look amazing. Thank you. 766 00:39:21,720 --> 00:39:24,520 There was a lot of really natural eye contact. 767 00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,640 There was a synchronicity there. 768 00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:27,720 We're on the same level. 769 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,400 I like your dress. Do you like the...? 770 00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:31,440 Yeah, it's good. 771 00:39:31,480 --> 00:39:32,840 Got nice contrast. Yeah. 772 00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:34,520 Yeah, we do. 773 00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,120 Family and friends, 774 00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,160 welcome to the wedding of Jacqui and Ryan. 775 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,080 Jacqui and Ryan will now share 776 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:53,400 their wedding vows. 777 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:55,360 I'm ready. Awesome. 778 00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:59,520 (HEAVY EXHALE) Jacqui... 779 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:04,720 Can I draw everyone's attention to how absolutely incredible 780 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,160 my bride looks today? 781 00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,360 (APPLAUSE, CHEERS) Come on, give it up. 782 00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:09,400 Give it up. 783 00:40:10,720 --> 00:40:13,160 Jacqui, you've knocked me out of the park. 784 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:14,960 Aw. You look amazing. 785 00:40:15,720 --> 00:40:17,400 You'll be the wonderful surprise 786 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,080 I get to wake up to, hopefully for forever, 787 00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:21,160 if we're very lucky. 788 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,920 Jacqui, I'll be honest. 789 00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:27,720 The fact that you're standing here with me 790 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:29,600 already gives me hope. 791 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:31,880 The first thing you should know about this man 792 00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:35,440 standing in front of you, he's ready to risk it all for us. 793 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,000 Ryan's vows... 794 00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:39,920 They're so lovely. 795 00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:45,800 But when I actually think about it, his vows were pre-written. 796 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,360 Honestly, I love the idea of being best friends with you. 797 00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:52,400 I don't know if it's about me, or whether he was thinking 798 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:55,600 about some other image of some other girl he had in his mind. 799 00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,040 Even when all these outfits and dressings are gone, 800 00:40:58,080 --> 00:40:59,400 you'll still be just as gorgeous. 801 00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:01,800 He didn't pay me many compliments 802 00:41:01,840 --> 00:41:04,120 that came out of a place of genuine in the moment. 803 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:05,720 It sounded almost pre-planned. 804 00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:08,720 I'm now your husband, and from the moment 805 00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:10,040 I learned we were matched, 806 00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,360 I've thought about you every single day. 807 00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:13,600 It felt rehearsed. 808 00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,320 If I'm being honest. 809 00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:19,080 My life, my heart, and my identity as a man. 810 00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:20,360 They're all yours now, Jacqui. 811 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:22,560 Yay! 812 00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:24,120 Aw! 813 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:27,320 I can tell that she loved it. 814 00:41:29,800 --> 00:41:31,640 That's a win. That's a win, baby. 815 00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:34,880 There you go. OK. 816 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,680 Congratulations, Ryan. 817 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:41,760 As my friends would say, you hit the jackpot. 818 00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:43,280 (LAUGHTER) 819 00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,160 And yes, you can call me Jackpot, Jackaroo, 820 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:51,320 Jack in the box, Jaqs, babe, or whatever you like. 821 00:41:51,360 --> 00:41:53,600 And I think I'm going to pick a nickname for you now. 822 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:55,680 Right now! 823 00:41:56,960 --> 00:41:58,280 So I'm going to call you RyRy. 824 00:42:02,240 --> 00:42:04,080 Um, so yeah, now a bit about me. 825 00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:07,120 I'm highly educated, intelligent, hard working. 826 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:08,440 I'm a corporate professional. 827 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:12,160 I'm sporty. I love tennis, hiking, running. 828 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,600 I can surf, ski, mountain bike, run around a netball court. 829 00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:18,040 I'm also a former model, a dancer and a certified 830 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:20,560 yoga instructor and an ex-cheerleader. 831 00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:22,560 I will literally ask you a million questions 832 00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:23,760 to get to know you. 833 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:24,880 Brutally honest. 834 00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:26,120 When I feel like there's something that could 835 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:27,320 make you a better man. 836 00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:31,360 Pressure. 837 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:33,400 You'll be required to take me on dates. 838 00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:35,440 Give me your jacket when I'm cold. 839 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:38,200 Definitely. Buy me flowers at least once a month. 840 00:42:38,240 --> 00:42:40,760 Bring me coffee in the morning. Tell me I'm gorgeous. 841 00:42:41,240 --> 00:42:43,320 I'm hoping you'll surprise me with romantic trips 842 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:44,600 to the Hunter Valley. 843 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:46,160 And together, we could maybe afford 844 00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:47,800 an eastern suburbs mortgage. 845 00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:51,160 Buy a beach house, adopt a cocker spaniel puppy. 846 00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:52,840 And I'd love to have a double his and her 847 00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:54,240 vanity bathroom one day. 848 00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:56,600 But hey, we're all going to die, 849 00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:57,960 and no-one's going to remember us. 850 00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,720 So let's just make the most of what we've been handed 851 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,200 and shoot for the sun together. 852 00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:05,440 Well done. That was amazing. 853 00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,400 Thank you. (APPLAUSE, CHEERS) 854 00:43:08,240 --> 00:43:09,240 And wild. 855 00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:11,680 Thank you. 856 00:43:13,240 --> 00:43:15,160 Mm. Interesting. 857 00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:16,240 Ours were so different. 858 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:20,840 She's a burst of fresh energy. 859 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:22,840 She knows what she likes. 860 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,320 And I took note of all of them. 861 00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:26,920 Nothing that she was saying 862 00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,640 is things that are beyond me naturally. 863 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,640 Yeah. Like, let's see I'm the man to give those to her. 864 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:34,880 Family and friends, 865 00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:40,640 I now get to pronounce Ryan and Jacqui as husband and wife, 866 00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,160 you may share your first kiss. 867 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:44,920 (APPLAUSE AND CHEERS) 868 00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,000 Head on down the aisle, guys. 869 00:43:58,280 --> 00:44:00,080 Yep, yep. Head down the aisle. 870 00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:01,560 Oh. 871 00:44:03,720 --> 00:44:06,720 But I was a bit concerned that he didn't take the lead 872 00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:09,080 when we had to walk back down the aisle. 873 00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:11,240 I was the one who ended up grabbing his hand and leading 874 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,040 him down, which I didn't want. 875 00:44:14,080 --> 00:44:15,640 Like, that's the one thing I didn't want. 876 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,680 I wanted a man to take the lead. 877 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:19,720 Thanks, guys. 878 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,760 And... Don't trip on that step. 879 00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:26,520 I think that would be the challenge is whether 880 00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,760 he can step up into, like, be the man around me 881 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:31,000 and then let me be the woman. 882 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:33,080 Because I don't want to be the one, like... 883 00:44:39,720 --> 00:44:41,600 (SOBS) Yeah. 884 00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:04,800 Yeah, definitely. Yeah. 885 00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:12,080 Just hang on to that light, 886 00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:13,640 make sure it doesn't go up in the wind. 887 00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:16,920 NARRATOR: It's been a blustery start to Jacqui and Ryan's wedding. 888 00:45:17,720 --> 00:45:18,840 I know the wind's a pain. 889 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,040 And Jacqui is still struggling with Ryan, 890 00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:26,480 after he has failed to live up to her high expectations. 891 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:30,000 I'm not happy. When we had to walk back down the aisle, 892 00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:33,320 I was the one leading him down, which is not a good start. 893 00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:34,520 And again, for me. 894 00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:39,800 I wanted a man to take the lead because I'm a high value woman. 895 00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:44,440 Looking towards me, guys. Thank you. 896 00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:46,960 Are you cold? No. 897 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,240 I'm not, actually. Oh. 898 00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:58,600 Three, two, one. 899 00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,560 (SHIVERS) How could I be more clear? 900 00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:11,080 Like, I made it very clear in my vows. 901 00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,680 So you'll be required to give me your jacket when I'm cold. 902 00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:15,160 Definitely. 903 00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:18,640 Definitely want to keep you warm. 904 00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,040 I hate girls getting cold. 905 00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:21,240 I get super protective. 906 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:23,440 Yeah? 907 00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:24,800 Mm-hm. 908 00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:26,120 I hate seeing a woman cold. 909 00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:27,640 I do. 910 00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,160 Ideally, I would not have a winter wedding. 911 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:34,080 Yeah. 912 00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,600 Something up here just triggers, you know? 913 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:41,840 Uh-oh, rain. 914 00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:45,520 In terms of my identity as a warrior, instinctively, 915 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,320 I'm very protective, you know, shield from the cold. 916 00:46:50,240 --> 00:46:51,880 I don't want to sound like a white knight or anything 917 00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:55,040 like that, but honestly, instinctively, that's how I act. 918 00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:57,320 I can't wait to just sit down and just talk. 919 00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:58,960 You can give me your coat if you want to. 920 00:47:00,720 --> 00:47:01,880 Can I give her my coat? 921 00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:03,680 Cool. If you want. 922 00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:05,560 You don't need to ask. 923 00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:12,040 I was just hopeful that I would, um... 924 00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:14,680 I would have a man that would give me his jacket. 925 00:47:14,720 --> 00:47:17,040 You can have my James Bond poker coat. 926 00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:18,440 You can put it on me. 927 00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:22,080 I had to tell Ryan a few times, and I'm sorry, but, 928 00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:24,800 like, I'm not going to be cold and he's going to be warm. 929 00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:27,200 Like, I don't want to explain to anyone 930 00:47:27,240 --> 00:47:29,080 that that's what they should do. 931 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:31,040 I want them to want it themselves. 932 00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,080 I can't make someone want to be a man. 933 00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:35,080 You know, either he is a man or he's not. 934 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,280 And... God damn, it's cold! 935 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:44,360 There is, like, so many shit men out there. 936 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,920 And like, I'm so sick of being independent and single and, 937 00:47:49,960 --> 00:47:52,680 like, I want someone, like, who can make sure 938 00:47:52,720 --> 00:47:54,280 that they actually step up and, like... 939 00:47:56,720 --> 00:47:58,560 I don't want to be the one taking the lead. 940 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:00,960 And it's hurtful when I have to do it. 941 00:48:07,680 --> 00:48:09,160 Hello. How are you? 942 00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:11,000 I'm Steve, darling. Monica. 943 00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,080 Good to meet you, Monica. 944 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,080 In the Southern Highlands, Tony and Morena's family 945 00:48:15,120 --> 00:48:19,040 and friends are coming together to celebrate the new couple. 946 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,560 We'd like to welcome Morena and Tony and give them a big 947 00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:24,360 round of applause, please. 948 00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:28,080 (APPLAUSE, CHEERS) 949 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,800 Walking in, it was a very warm feeling. 950 00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:41,160 I'm actually excited to see friends and family. 951 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,160 Hello! 952 00:48:43,200 --> 00:48:44,200 Love you, brother. 953 00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:46,400 And I'll shake all your hands as well. 954 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:48,280 Oh my god. 955 00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:50,200 European background... 956 00:48:50,240 --> 00:48:51,600 I didn't get to shake hands over here. 957 00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:54,000 That's how we can bond and, you know, connect. 958 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:55,160 Pleasure to meet you. 959 00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:57,960 Now I'm getting to know the family. 960 00:48:58,800 --> 00:49:00,720 Wow. That was nice. 961 00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:02,240 Hello. Nice to meet you again. 962 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:05,080 I like your jacket. Oh, thank you. You too. 963 00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:06,240 Looking very sharp. 964 00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:08,800 Now that's a gentleman, eh? 965 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:14,640 Thank you. Good? 966 00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,000 I am super happy. 967 00:49:17,520 --> 00:49:19,480 I love the way he engaged with everyone. 968 00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,400 He's just divine. 969 00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:22,680 A real gentleman. Cheers. 970 00:49:22,720 --> 00:49:23,800 Cheers, everybody. 971 00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:25,560 Cheers. Cheers. 972 00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:26,720 Cheers. 973 00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:28,520 So I can't wait to get to know him. 974 00:49:29,240 --> 00:49:31,640 Like, 4:44 in the morning is the time I get up. 975 00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:33,560 Is that the time you get up? Every morning. 976 00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:35,040 Wow. You'll see, I get up... 977 00:49:36,240 --> 00:49:37,240 Go for a run together. 978 00:49:37,720 --> 00:49:38,720 Of course. 979 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:41,280 Mum, you like running. Go for a run. 980 00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:43,200 Do you really? Yeah, I do. 981 00:49:43,240 --> 00:49:44,360 Yeah? Yeah. 982 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:50,480 I have never met a man who has got energy to match mine. 983 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:52,840 But I think I've hit the jackpot today. 984 00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:55,000 I teach, I teach group fitness. 985 00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:56,320 Really? Yeah. 986 00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:57,920 So you can train me every morning? 987 00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:01,080 (CHEERS) 988 00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,640 Tony and I are extremely close. 989 00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:21,680 We're first cousins. 990 00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:26,280 And I've known him my whole life, and it's not the sort of 991 00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:29,280 woman that he usually dates. 992 00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:34,520 So I teach classes during the week, and I normally 993 00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:37,440 leave Friday nights, Saturdays and Sundays for deejaying. 994 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,000 Wow. A DJ. 995 00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:40,200 This is getting even better. 996 00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:44,800 I think there needs to be chemistry and sexuality involved 997 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:46,000 right from the beginning. 998 00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,600 I don't know if that's happened at the moment. 999 00:50:49,240 --> 00:50:52,440 I would have probably tried to formulate him 1000 00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:56,920 with somebody potentially ten years younger than him. 1001 00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:58,960 When you get older, you get wiser. 1002 00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:01,200 You kind of think, you know, what am I attracted to? 1003 00:51:01,240 --> 00:51:03,840 What do I want in my life? What don't you want? 1004 00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:07,360 I'm at a stage of my life where I've wasted a lot of time. 1005 00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:09,320 I don't have time to waste. 1006 00:51:09,360 --> 00:51:12,080 She's sort of older than what I expected. 1007 00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:15,400 And if I was the one matchmaking, I don't know if 1008 00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:16,960 she would have been the right pick. 1009 00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:26,800 NARRATOR: Jacqui and Ryan's reception is about to kick off. 1010 00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,120 (CHEERS AND APPLAUSE) 1011 00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:33,080 With Ryan unaware that he is falling short 1012 00:51:33,120 --> 00:51:34,880 of his wife's high standards. 1013 00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:37,840 I'm feeling happy at this point. 1014 00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:40,320 Really nice little intimate little photo shoot. 1015 00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:42,160 It was like our first little cheeky, 1016 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:46,120 kind of like interaction outside of the formalities there. 1017 00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:47,440 What's happening? Hi. Hi! 1018 00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:48,960 I'm Ryan. RyRy. 1019 00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:50,000 Nice to meet you. 1020 00:51:50,720 --> 00:51:53,960 She got freezing cold, so I gave her the jacket as well. 1021 00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:56,320 And, um, she thinks I'm really impressive. 1022 00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,400 We've been cold all day. Yeah, I was crying. 1023 00:51:58,440 --> 00:51:59,960 Put your heads closer together, guys. 1024 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:01,640 (SHIVERS) That's great. 1025 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:03,280 Just being together as humans. 1026 00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:06,240 Yeah, it's shared chemistry at this point. 1027 00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:16,560 Uh, not sure. 1028 00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,720 Look at this. Look how beautiful that is. 1029 00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:20,760 He failed to take the lead twice. 1030 00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:22,560 Mm. 1031 00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:23,640 Oh, that's good. 1032 00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,600 If it was me, I would just be thinking 1033 00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,560 this was so embarrassing. 1034 00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:31,400 Like, this is my big day, my chance to be a man. 1035 00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:34,160 And to be honest, he failed. 1036 00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:36,400 So we need to find more things in common. 1037 00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:38,360 Succulent. 1038 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:40,520 What do you think? Do you think he's my vibe? 1039 00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:42,400 It depends what kind of dog he has. 1040 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:43,760 Yeah, actually. 1041 00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,240 Ryan, what kind of dog do you have? 1042 00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:48,240 Um, I have a kelpie-cross-staffie. 1043 00:52:50,800 --> 00:52:52,640 She's beautiful, hey. 1044 00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:56,240 She's a, she's not a little girl. 1045 00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:58,880 Like, she's quite athletic and, well-built or whatever. 1046 00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:02,160 But, yeah, I found her after a year of searching. 1047 00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:04,880 I was just looking for my dog because I had my house, and... 1048 00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:06,360 Yeah, like, it needs to be the right one. (VOICE FADES) 1049 00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:08,400 I didn't really like Ryan's choice of dog. 1050 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:10,160 It's kind of a concern. 1051 00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:12,720 I don't really like staffies. 1052 00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,480 I would always prefer to go for a dog 1053 00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:19,240 whose instincts are to, like, go out and hunt for itself, 1054 00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:20,480 like hunt rabbits and stuff. 1055 00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:23,280 Which is why I like cocker spaniels and hunter dogs, 1056 00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:26,480 because I think those dogs are just a little bit more lovely. 1057 00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:28,640 And they never, ever, ever touch people. 1058 00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:33,840 She's just like huddling there, looking at me like that. 1059 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:35,760 It's more what it says about the guy. 1060 00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:38,520 I need him to impress me. 1061 00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:42,280 And owning a staffie, it's just really unimpressive. 1062 00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:43,520 It's a huge red flag. 1063 00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,600 She's just really grown to love everything about life. 1064 00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:48,320 You know, like, she's so smart. 1065 00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:49,520 How do you know that? 1066 00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:51,360 Cause, like, she just doesn't act like other dogs. 1067 00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,040 So far, things aren't going well. 1068 00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,400 And the more I get to know Ryan, 1069 00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,160 the less we seem to have in common. 1070 00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:00,240 Which was very concerning. 1071 00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:03,560 (GLASS CLINKING) 1072 00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:06,600 Over at Morena and Tony's wedding... 1073 00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:10,560 ..Morena's children have prepared a speech in honour 1074 00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:12,000 of their beloved mum. 1075 00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,200 We are truly honoured to stand here today to speak 1076 00:54:20,240 --> 00:54:22,520 about someone incredibly special to us. 1077 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:24,840 Our amazing mum, Morena. 1078 00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:31,720 Mum, you've been on a remarkable journey and we're so proud of 1079 00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,640 everything you've accomplished. 1080 00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:37,040 And you're totally the coolest mum going around. 1081 00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:39,760 That's true. 1082 00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:42,000 Now to Tony. 1083 00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:44,360 Whoa! 1084 00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:46,160 Stefan. 1085 00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,720 We want to share a little advice. 1086 00:54:50,240 --> 00:54:51,800 Go, Stefan. Come on. 1087 00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:56,200 Treat our mum as the queen she is. 1088 00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:01,280 She's the heart and soul of our family. 1089 00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:06,960 And she deserves to be pampered 1090 00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:11,160 and cherished every single day. 1091 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:16,760 She is the most hard working woman I know. 1092 00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:21,560 You will be lucky to have her around 1093 00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:25,240 and deserves to be adored. 1094 00:55:26,240 --> 00:55:28,680 Here's to a wonderful journey ahead. 1095 00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:31,760 Congratulations to you both. 1096 00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:33,960 Cheers to Morena and Tony. 1097 00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:36,000 (CHEERS AND APPLAUSE) 1098 00:55:41,360 --> 00:55:42,360 Love you. 1099 00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:43,680 Family is extremely important to me. 1100 00:55:43,720 --> 00:55:46,760 Like, very close, very family orientated, you know? 1101 00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:48,040 And the kids are amazing. 1102 00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:51,000 I mean, she's very lucky to have beautiful kids like that. 1103 00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:52,960 She lives for those kids. 1104 00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:54,920 You know, they're my family now. 1105 00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:56,760 This experiment, they've become my family. 1106 00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,720 So I'm open arms, you know? 1107 00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:03,160 Do you want to go around? I'll introduce you. 1108 00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:06,160 Can I get a glass of white wine, please? 1109 00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:08,240 I want to meet your side. 1110 00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:09,920 Oh, OK. 1111 00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:14,000 She's obviously a fabulous woman, 1112 00:56:14,040 --> 00:56:15,680 and you can see it in her. 1113 00:56:15,720 --> 00:56:16,920 You can see it through her kids. 1114 00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:21,880 She's got fabulous children, but I don't know if she's going 1115 00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:23,360 to tick the boxes for him. 1116 00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:25,520 Hello. I'll just come and say hello. 1117 00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,360 (OVERLAPPING GREETINGS) 1118 00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:29,200 Ciao. Nice to meet you, darling. 1119 00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:32,200 Nice to meet you. I'm Tony's first cousin. 1120 00:56:32,240 --> 00:56:33,960 Nice to meet you, Tony's first cousin. 1121 00:56:34,520 --> 00:56:36,400 I was the best man at his first wedding. 1122 00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,520 When I look at Tony, I see someone in his mid-50 1123 00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:43,960 53 or 54 years of age. 1124 00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:47,320 He still looks very, very good, you know. 1125 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,120 He's got beautiful, natural teeth. 1126 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:52,320 And, you know, he's tanned and he's got a full set of hair. 1127 00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:54,040 Proud of you. 1128 00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:58,160 And I think he would look very charismatic 1129 00:56:58,200 --> 00:56:59,280 with a younger woman. 1130 00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:03,040 Somebody potentially around 38 to 42. 1131 00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:06,680 I've never seen Steve so quiet! 1132 00:57:17,080 --> 00:57:18,520 I want to take you out because 1133 00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:20,080 I think I (BLEEP) needed to talk to you. 1134 00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:37,360 She 57? 1135 00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:03,840 NARRATOR: At Morena and Tony's wedding... 1136 00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:05,880 I'm good, yeah! 1137 00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:09,920 ..Tony's cousin Steven has pulled him outside to address 1138 00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:12,680 his concerns about his new bride. 1139 00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,040 You still look very good. 1140 00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:00,480 Yeah, I'm getting old, too, you know. 1141 00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:01,840 But you're not. 1142 00:59:02,840 --> 00:59:06,280 Steve just hammered me, like he was just Steve. 1143 00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:07,320 Steve speaks his mind. 1144 00:59:08,040 --> 00:59:09,400 Steve will say anything. 1145 00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:21,600 He's direct. That's his style. 1146 00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:24,280 Listen, I do... 1147 00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:26,240 Do I take it in? 1148 00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:35,760 She's older than you are. She's got adult children. 1149 00:59:39,040 --> 00:59:40,040 He's like my brother. 1150 00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:44,600 But sometimes, you gotta take a step back and... 1151 00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:47,440 ..and feel ways differently. 1152 00:59:48,120 --> 00:59:49,200 It's different, Steve. 1153 00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:53,120 It's different now. I'm older, Steve. 1154 00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,480 When you get older, you start thinking differently. 1155 00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:56,920 You start thinking wisely. 1156 00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:59,320 You know, you want to meet somebody that's on the same 1157 00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:00,760 wavelength, you know? 1158 01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:02,440 I told you, I'm 53. 1159 01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:03,840 I'm no wall painting anymore. 1160 01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:14,680 Let's give her a shot, Steve. 1161 01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:15,920 The lady's nice, mate. 1162 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:23,480 The whole day today has been unbelievable and beautiful. 1163 01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:25,160 How can you take that away from somebody? 1164 01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:27,440 So they did a good job, the experts, huh? 1165 01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:29,080 They actually did. 1166 01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:32,320 I look around and I look at her and I think to myself, 1167 01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:34,280 wow, man, she's a perfect person. 1168 01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:37,520 I think I have the most beautiful woman in the whole place here. 1169 01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:38,760 So... Hello. 1170 01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:42,000 Hello, sweetheart. How are you guys going tonight? 1171 01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:43,640 That's good. 1172 01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:45,520 Morena and I are a really good match. 1173 01:00:45,560 --> 01:00:47,160 We have similarities. 1174 01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:50,240 She's very family orientated, like me. 1175 01:00:50,280 --> 01:00:51,840 This is very important to me. 1176 01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:53,760 So that's what I like to see. 1177 01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:54,800 That's what I asked for. 1178 01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:02,280 She's been my number one because she's... 1179 01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:03,680 She does everything for me. 1180 01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:06,880 She's supported me through everything 1181 01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:08,560 that she's done for me. 1182 01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:12,440 Like, look after me, and she built me a house. 1183 01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:16,080 Wow. Back at home, for my independence. 1184 01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:19,120 So I treat her like a queen. 1185 01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:21,840 I'm impressed. 1186 01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:23,760 I'm impressed. 1187 01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:25,880 The way he engaged with my kids. 1188 01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:27,400 He was gorgeous. 1189 01:01:28,280 --> 01:01:30,360 I think Stefan's got you on your jacket, mate. 1190 01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:31,920 Oh, no, you killed me, Stefan. 1191 01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:33,720 Oh, I like your jacket. 1192 01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:36,120 No worries, Stefan, you can have it after this. 1193 01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:39,440 Red velvet. I got you, bro. 1194 01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:42,200 I got a similar jacket at home. 1195 01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:43,720 He loves jackets. 1196 01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:46,480 Stefan doesn't have that in his life. 1197 01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:50,120 So it's kind of really special. 1198 01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:55,880 The first day of my marriage with Tony 1199 01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:57,400 is looking better than good. 1200 01:01:57,440 --> 01:02:00,640 It's now time for the bride and groom's first dance. 1201 01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:02,800 (CHEERS) 1202 01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:08,640 You are amazing. 1203 01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:12,320 I can't believe that somebody would be so perfect. 1204 01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:21,840 I'm so excited for the opportunity to actually have 1205 01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:26,560 a chance in falling in love, because I've not felt it before. 1206 01:02:30,720 --> 01:02:33,880 We've got one final song where everyone's going to get up 1207 01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:38,280 and have a dance. (CHEERS) Opa! 1208 01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:42,080 (CHEERS) 1209 01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:01,760 Next... 1210 01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:03,680 Need to experience both sides - being in the dirt 1211 01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:05,120 and being on the gold. 1212 01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:06,360 Where do you feel now? 1213 01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:07,400 I'm on the gold. 1214 01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:10,640 Can Ryan win over his new bride? 1215 01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:14,880 That's so impressive. 1216 01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:17,640 I'm definitely the type of man that she's looking for. 1217 01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:20,400 Or will his attempts fall flat? 1218 01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:21,440 (ALL EXCLAIM) 1219 01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:32,920 All right guys we're going to start speeches now. 1220 01:03:33,760 --> 01:03:36,120 NARRATOR: After a disappointing start to her day... 1221 01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:39,080 (CHEERS, APPLAUSE) 1222 01:03:39,120 --> 01:03:42,120 ..Jacqui has almost given up hope on her new husband. 1223 01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:46,600 With only the speeches left to turn the night around. 1224 01:03:48,440 --> 01:03:49,560 Honoured guests, 1225 01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:51,360 ladies and gentlemen on both sides, 1226 01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:55,080 thank you eternally for being part of this day. 1227 01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:56,680 Thank you so much, guys. 1228 01:03:57,720 --> 01:04:00,680 Robert Frost said something very relevant to my life, 1229 01:04:01,200 --> 01:04:04,120 "It's a funny thing that when a man hasn't anything 1230 01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:07,560 on earth to worry about, he goes off and gets married." 1231 01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:12,080 I also read this the other day. 1232 01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:15,200 "My wife always says I have two faults. 1233 01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:20,680 One, I don't listen. And two...something else." 1234 01:04:20,720 --> 01:04:22,040 (MUTED LAUGHTER) 1235 01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:26,080 I've rarely done things by the book, have taken many 1236 01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:28,600 different paths, and throughout my 20s and 30s, 1237 01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:30,800 I made a mission to face all my fears. 1238 01:04:31,360 --> 01:04:33,240 Everything except sharks. 1239 01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:35,280 I don't want none of that smoke. 1240 01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:37,560 Do you like sharks? I don't like sharks. 1241 01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:42,160 I strongly believe in personal evolution. 1242 01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:44,680 I live it and breathe it every year that passes. 1243 01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:47,560 As I stand here in this auspicious moment, 1244 01:04:47,600 --> 01:04:50,440 vivid flashbacks spark off an echo in my thoughts, 1245 01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:54,320 the trials and challenges that compelled me to grow. 1246 01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:58,920 At age ten, my eyesight rapidly dimmed, needing glasses 1247 01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:03,800 combined with intellect, skinny build and nerdy tendencies. 1248 01:05:03,840 --> 01:05:06,640 Those formative teenage years of mine were rough. 1249 01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:09,800 I became a target in all the ways 1250 01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:11,560 that bullying can manifest. 1251 01:05:12,080 --> 01:05:15,080 My personality became fragmented from not fitting in. 1252 01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:16,960 Harbouring anger and confusion, 1253 01:05:17,000 --> 01:05:19,280 I felt like the world I knew was against me. 1254 01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:23,520 But now I'm thankful for those experiences. 1255 01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:28,160 Men need this pain to taste the harsh spectrum of humanity. 1256 01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:30,200 The eye-opening realities. 1257 01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:32,880 Throughout my 20s and 30s, I was able to process 1258 01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,920 all the negativity into tools that made me stronger. 1259 01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:38,680 Ryan's speech was very personal. 1260 01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:40,200 I learned a lot more about him. 1261 01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:42,200 He's gone through a lot. 1262 01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:46,880 I wasn't sure at the beginning, but I haven't ever met 1263 01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:51,000 someone that's been through as much as I have, and I see a lot 1264 01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:53,920 of hope through shared past experiences, 1265 01:05:53,960 --> 01:05:55,880 like we were both bullied in high school. 1266 01:05:55,920 --> 01:05:58,840 We've both gone through a lot of self development. 1267 01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:00,800 He's the kind of man that seems like if he makes a mistake, 1268 01:06:00,840 --> 01:06:01,960 he's willing to grow from it. 1269 01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:06,160 So in terms of future potential, that gives me a lot of hope. 1270 01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:09,360 I made a mission to seek out extreme activities 1271 01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:12,480 that challenged me and conquer every bucket list item possible. 1272 01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:16,560 I've skydived, bungee jumped, whitewater rafted, 1273 01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:20,640 given presentations at huge conferences, expanded national 1274 01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:24,840 client contracts, eaten insane foods, been utterly heartbroken. 1275 01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:28,400 It's how I became passionate about training mental 1276 01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:32,360 clarity, health, vitality, wolves, dragons, 1277 01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:34,640 dancing and personal evolution. 1278 01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:38,760 However, love in the past has not been enough. 1279 01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:41,080 The missing element was my true partner. 1280 01:06:41,840 --> 01:06:45,040 I know how to take care of a woman, while simultaneously 1281 01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:48,720 learning how to be her man at the same time. 1282 01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:50,000 (CHEERS) 1283 01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:53,000 That was really good. 1284 01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:55,640 He's not everything I asked for, to be honest. 1285 01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:56,880 Like, he's actually not. 1286 01:06:57,360 --> 01:06:59,960 First of all, um, he's not that much taller 1287 01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:01,440 than me, and he's not blonde. 1288 01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:04,040 But in saying that, he's definitely got 1289 01:07:04,080 --> 01:07:05,480 a similar life as mine. 1290 01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:09,120 It's so similar to my upbringing. And I feel like 1291 01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,960 the experts obviously took a lot of time to match us 1292 01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:13,840 based on our life experiences. 1293 01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:18,520 We're both deep thinkers, very intelligent, and the more 1294 01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:21,000 I get to know him, the more I'm starting to like him. 1295 01:07:21,040 --> 01:07:23,040 You need to experience both sides - being in the dirt 1296 01:07:23,080 --> 01:07:24,440 and being on the gold. 1297 01:07:24,480 --> 01:07:25,880 Where do you feel now? 1298 01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:26,960 I'm on the gold. 1299 01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:32,360 She's absolutely amazing, beautiful. 1300 01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:34,400 And we're on the same page about that. 1301 01:07:34,440 --> 01:07:35,680 You know, it's about growing. 1302 01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:38,440 It's about meeting someone like each other. 1303 01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:43,320 That's so impressive. I love it. 1304 01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:46,400 I'm definitely the type of man that she's looking for. 1305 01:07:46,440 --> 01:07:48,280 You can squat my whole bridal party. 1306 01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:49,600 Yeah, yeah. Yeah. 1307 01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:51,600 Who can be protective. 1308 01:07:51,640 --> 01:07:54,160 And a lot of men can't walk it. 1309 01:07:54,200 --> 01:07:55,920 It's time for your first dance, guys. 1310 01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:57,320 (CHEERS) 1311 01:07:57,360 --> 01:08:00,360 She's seen who I am when it comes to being a man. 1312 01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:03,200 Yeah, like, overall, it's a really optimistic feeling. 1313 01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:08,000 Yeah, I think I've found that unicorn. 1314 01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:10,520 I'm gonna dip you. Ready? 1315 01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:11,680 OK, what way? Left. 1316 01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:13,200 You're gonna have to catch me, though. 1317 01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:16,160 (ALL EXCLAIM) 1318 01:08:22,560 --> 01:08:24,040 Oh my god! 1319 01:08:24,080 --> 01:08:25,440 That did not just happen. 1320 01:08:30,440 --> 01:08:31,960 It's time for your first dance, guys. 1321 01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:33,800 (CHEERS) 1322 01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:36,200 All right, I'm gonna dip you. Ready? 1323 01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:37,520 OK, what way? Left. 1324 01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:39,280 You're gonna have to catch me, though. 1325 01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:43,800 (ALL EXCLAIM) 1326 01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:50,840 Oh my god! He just ruined everything. 1327 01:08:51,560 --> 01:08:54,120 Ryan, you're not meant to throw your bride on the ground! 1328 01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:55,560 Trod on the dress! 1329 01:08:55,600 --> 01:08:57,040 That did not just happen. 1330 01:08:57,080 --> 01:08:58,920 Did he let go? Everyone's laughing. 1331 01:08:58,960 --> 01:09:01,840 Oh, (BLEEP)! Nobody's going to remember this, right? 1332 01:09:01,880 --> 01:09:03,400 No one saw anything. 1333 01:09:03,440 --> 01:09:04,880 Just a small, intimate group. 1334 01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:08,080 I'm sorry. No, no, no. 1335 01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:09,760 It's good. I think it's funny. 1336 01:09:09,800 --> 01:09:11,560 I think it's funny. It's funny. 1337 01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:13,160 It was so good! 1338 01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:16,720 I swear you had some coordination. 1339 01:09:18,280 --> 01:09:19,480 Are you OK? Yeah, I'm fine. 1340 01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:23,720 I literally went down and I stepped on the dress, 1341 01:09:23,760 --> 01:09:24,760 and that was it. 1342 01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:27,880 You know that's going on TV, bro. 1343 01:09:27,920 --> 01:09:29,160 Like, straight up. 1344 01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:38,840 What kind of stupid question is that? 1345 01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:41,520 Yeah, yeah. I'm OK. 1346 01:09:43,200 --> 01:09:44,440 I was very close to the ground. 1347 01:09:45,480 --> 01:09:46,560 No. 1348 01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:07,640 Had such a big day. 1349 01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:12,040 In terms of my identity as a warrior, 1350 01:10:12,080 --> 01:10:14,000 instinctively, I'm very protective. 1351 01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:15,520 I think it's funny. 1352 01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:17,400 I'm more concerned about the whole how it's going 1353 01:10:17,440 --> 01:10:18,720 to present for her. 1354 01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:20,480 I'm a trooper. 1355 01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:21,720 She doesn't deserve that. 1356 01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:23,880 She just deserves a little bit more dignity, 1357 01:10:23,920 --> 01:10:25,320 I think, from that. 1358 01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:28,600 We were just trying to dance up to that point, and that was it. 1359 01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:30,880 When I think about how many people might see it, 1360 01:10:31,760 --> 01:10:33,640 um, I feel really... 1361 01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:35,400 I'm worried. 1362 01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:37,240 I'm just gonna have a quick discussion. 1363 01:10:37,280 --> 01:10:39,080 I'll be back. Go for it. Yeah. 1364 01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:06,200 Like, it's going in. 1365 01:11:07,040 --> 01:11:09,400 I'm gonna petition it goes in. 1366 01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:26,680 I think she loved it. 1367 01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:29,720 Because it made it, like, goofy and light hearted. 1368 01:11:55,720 --> 01:11:58,480 Can deadlift 220 but can't... pick her up! 1369 01:11:58,520 --> 01:11:59,800 Can't keep her off the floor. 1370 01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:05,880 Tomorrow night... 1371 01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:09,720 Well, Eliot, this is highly unusual. 1372 01:12:09,760 --> 01:12:13,120 Runaway groom, Eliot, makes a shock appearance. 1373 01:12:13,160 --> 01:12:14,840 I gave the honeymoon two days. 1374 01:12:15,440 --> 01:12:18,560 But will he re-enter the experiment after some 1375 01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:21,160 hard truths from expert, John? 1376 01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:22,320 Well... 1377 01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:24,200 You can't tell me it's worked because you're single and 35. 1378 01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:25,600 And I get that narrative. It's not a narrative, 1379 01:12:25,640 --> 01:12:26,680 it's just fact. 1380 01:12:28,840 --> 01:12:31,920 And... Dinner is served. 1381 01:12:32,680 --> 01:12:36,000 It's the first dinner party of the experiment. 1382 01:12:37,080 --> 01:12:40,880 I'm so excited. Where our newlyweds will meet each other's partners 1383 01:12:40,920 --> 01:12:42,760 for the very first time. 1384 01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:45,280 Why does everyone look so freaking hot? 1385 01:12:45,320 --> 01:12:47,120 Everyone's so happy! Yeah. 1386 01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:48,480 I love seeing people happy. 1387 01:12:49,600 --> 01:12:52,360 But two couples already on the rocks... 1388 01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:54,040 What happened? Um... 1389 01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:56,000 ..sends shockwaves through the group. 1390 01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:57,560 Oh my god! 1391 01:12:57,600 --> 01:12:59,480 Are you joking? 1392 01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:01,120 It's OK. 1393 01:13:01,160 --> 01:13:03,280 If he does show up tonight, good luck to him. 1394 01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:06,320 I feel like I've been the one making most of the effort. 1395 01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:08,000 Are you serious? 1396 01:13:08,040 --> 01:13:10,200 Tim tells his side of the story. 1397 01:13:13,440 --> 01:13:17,400 But Jamie's not convinced. He's gaslighting her! 1398 01:13:17,440 --> 01:13:19,320 Am I the only one seeing what's going on here? 1399 01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:22,200 That is not OK. I won't sit here and tolerate that. 1400 01:13:22,240 --> 01:13:25,480 I can't die on this hill, charging this (BLEEP). 1401 01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:26,840 Someone's got to back me. 1402 01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:28,880 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv